No Space for Further Burials by Feryal Gauhar

Raza Rumi

Decades of imperialism have left Afghanistan and its people devastated. But the fall of the Taliban, and the much touted “liberation” of Afghanistan, has produced a new spate of novels, films and other artistic media dealing with the “Afghan victim.”

And when I say “Afghan victim,” I mean a nauseating overdose of burqa-oppression, Taliban brutality and other “Oriental” tragedies. Not only are these subjects sexy – they tie into the global imperatives of terror and Islamism – but they also artfully exonerate the “aggressor,” whether it is the Soviets, US imperialism or NATO. As such, the bulk of this new subgenre of fiction addresses the Western, English-speaking world; writing about reluctant and not-so-reluctant fundamentalists sells “Over There.” Meanwhile, literature is turning into a grand extravaganza of marketing, prizes, commoditization and short-lived shelf lives.

Feryal Ali Gauhar’s second novel, No Space for Further Burials, attempts to break free of many of these stereotypes. A trained economist, filmmaker and former UN Goodwill Ambassador, Gauhar opts to publish her book in India , not a Western outlet. More importantly, No Space inverts the oft-hackneyed themes of displacement, war, America and the suffering Afghans, ultimately treating these grim motifs by focusing on the sanity – and insanity – implicit within personal narrative.

Gauhar’s protagonist (and narrator) is not the radical Muslim torn with existential dilemmas, as might typically be expected. Rather, he is a small town US army medical technician who has been captured by Afghan rebels and locked up in a local insane asylum. The asylum is a microcosm of Afghanistan itself.

It is September 2002, one year after 9/11 and the US invasion of Afghanistan. The narrator, an American who like millions of others has been disempowered by the war machine, has no particular ideological pretences about the war for “freedom.” As his captivity drags on, he realizes the word means nothing to him at all. “No one knows which is outside and which is inside, sister. No one knows which is the earth and which is the sky,” the narrator tells a woman at one point.

When the novel begins, the reader is given no hints as to who the asylum inmates are . Refugees or derelicts, fugitives or simple folks declared insane, we don’t know. All that is certain is that the asylum has imbued upon its tenants a constant state of loss – their personal, civic and political lives have all been violated. As the story progresses, we find out how each inmate has landed in this dilapidated, sub-human institution, which acts both as a clever device to keep the plot and action taut and a comment on the sheer lunacy of the world and Afghanistan’s place within it.

Gauhar uses the captive narrator’s journal – ostensibly kept to fight the loneliness of imprisonment – as a literary device with which to draw in the reader. It is not a particularly unique approach, but it works remarkably well in No Space . The journal is simple, sometimes poetic and almost always haunting. The gravity and cliché of war are subtly conveyed through the myriad lives within the asylum. The personal stories together provide a reflection of the collective complicity so often present in the perpetuation of violence. The inmates’ tales of displacement (including the US medic’s own) mirror the dislocation of oppressed and war-stricken people in Afghanistan and, indeed, throughout history.

Readers are asked to empathize with the narrator as he strives to cope with his dire circumstances; the irony is almost heavy-handed. For it is the American “liberator” who is confined within “a tomb for the living.” We find out that the medic aspired to be a writer before he was sent to Afghanistan; but in recounting the miseries of war, he loses the ability to truly communicate. Instead, his language is the language of the asylum, a language that cuts across nationality and culture. Gauhar’s novel indeed has an element of magical realism, for the ability of people to understand their suffering signifies the characters’ ultimate humanity.

Yet there is also a darker message here – one that insists humanity is unable to heal itself. From the colonial Great Game in Afghanistan to the brutalities of the Cold War, violence seeps into the collective conscience through generations, eventually becoming a part of Reality. It is a curse endemic to the human condition, Gauhar stresses. It does not matter if you are an external or an internal victim.

If anything, No Space is too heavy. By book’s end, it has been hammered in that war has no victors; there is only a destroyed country and its people who have withstood the madness of it all. Still, Gauhar and her novel step out of cliché and articulate a global voice. In the age of the constructed “Islamic Threat,” the novel deftly attacks the myth. War, violence and suffering in Afghanistan have had little to do with Islam. Even the “victor” is in effect a victim, and the narrator’s predicament becomes a metaphor for all that Afghanistan and a war-ravaged world stand for.

An earlier version of this review appeared in the Friday Times. His blogs can be read at www.razarumi.com.

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The Leaping Oxen of Kanjwani

Owais Mughal

Kanjwani is a small town on Nankana Sahib-Shorkot Cantt Railway section. By road it is connected to the next big towns of Samundri (15km) and Faisalabad (55km). Kanjwani is famous for its annual cattle fair where people from all over the area bring their cattle to show-off. The festivities include tent pegging, Kabaddi, horse dance etc. There is also a beauty contest of cows, oxen and buffaloes as well as an ox-cart race. The following breath taking photo was taken by Amir Mukhtar on January 13, 2008 at the Kanjwani festival.


Photo Credits: Amir Mukhtar

The area around Kanjwani is famous for its cattle breeding. The most famous breed is called Sahiwal named after the city of Sahiwal (35 km from Kanjwani). The Sahiwal breed of cows/oxen is considered one of the best in the world. According to the reference below:

This breed of cows and oxen is tick-resistant, heat-tolerant and noted for its high resistance to parasites, both internal and external. Cows average 2270 kg of milk during a lactation while suckling a calf and much higher milk yields have been recorded. Due to their heat tolerance and high milk production they have been exported to other Asian countries as well as Africa and the Caribbean.


The breed called Sahiwal was also introduced into Australia where it came from New Guinea in the early 1950’s. Two Australian tropical dairy breeds were produced from it which are the Australian Milking Zebu and the Australian Fresian Sahiwal.

It is a matter of pride for Pakistan on how a small rural area around Kanjwani has been producing one of the best cattle in world.

Reference: Sahiwal

Men At Their Best

Men at their Best – 55 PMA Long Course - Lahore Chapter had a families get together on cool evening of Jan 25, 2008 at a very cosy (exclusive) club. Over 100 people together, some of them meeting after decades, grown up children and those lovely lovely memories. It was a sheer joy.

Evening took off with amongst those informal pleasantry salutations that are the characteristic of any meeting of the course mate. They start where they had left, notwithstanding the time laps or physical distances. Updating each other continued over sumptuous dinner and beyond.

The best thing of the evening was review of what has happened during the time since we last met. ZK – a very nice gentleman I rediscovered only last night – gave an overview briefly touching almost everything in lives and work of the men from 55 Long Course. He specially mentioned – and we all appreciated - the presence of ‘R’ from Pano Akil and ‘S’ from Rawalpindi, and also congratulated four of our course mates who have come back after performing Haj.

When is the next meet ZK? I am already looking forward to it.

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Alam-e-junoon meiN jo hi guzri

Owais Mughal

For our non-Urdu readers the title above means how the days of madness were spent.

As long as I remember, I have always loved reading cricket scorecards and match reports. The monthly ‘Cricketer’ with chief editor Hanif Mohammad and ‘akhbar-e-watan’ with chief editor Munir Hussain used to be my all time favorite magazines. I liked these magazines because they used to have a scorecard and a summary section of the all the matches played in a month.

I was deeply infatuated by cricket statistics and sometimes in late 1970s I started collecting score-cards of Pakistan’s One Day Internationals.

The first scorecard that I remember filling was Pakistan versus West Indies in World Cup Semi Final played on June 20, 1979. Our whole family was listening to the LIVE radio commentary from England and I was scoring on the back pages of my Grade 3 English homework book. That day was also the first time I learnt how to spell ‘Javed Miandad’ in English. Pakistan cricket team needing 294 to win was 176 for 1 at one point but then ended up being all out for 250. Those who remember this match may appreciate this score card.

Few days later, I bought a thick writing register from a stationery store and started noting down the scorecards of Pakistan’s matches. My modus operandi was to go to second hand book sellers on Karimabad roundabout and become their borrowing member by paying a princely fee of Rupees 5-a-month. This allowed me an unlimited access to their old copies of ‘Cricketer’ magazine which I brought home and copied scorecards from them. Sometimes these mobile book sellers got hold of some rare copies of cricket magazines from Australia and England too, which gave me an added inspiration.

Very soon word of mouth spread that I am collecting Pakistan’s ODI score cards and my friends also started bringing me their old copies of cricketer magazines.

I also became famous at neighborhood level where people started calling me Ben Lawrence. The real Ben used to be Pakistan Cricket team’s official scorer in 1980s.

I was now invited to every local tournament to do scoring for different teams.

In 1985 an annual book was published by BCCP (now PCB) about Pakistan cricket. I immediately bought it. It had score cards of all first class, test and ODIs that Pakistan played in 1984. After its maiden publishing, this book got discontinued from next year. The reason must be low sales. I don’t know who else besides me would’ve bought it.

By 1986, I had collected all but 12 scorecards of Pakistan’s ODI. The ones that were missing were from the 1971-1973 period and some from the mid 1970s. I started going to Karachi libraries to find old copies of Cricketer magazine. I remember riding my 50 cc motor bike during summer vacations and going from Liaquat National Library to Taimuria Library North Nazimabad to Karachi University library etc.

I do remember an interesting incidence where I once went to Liaquat National Library. I was very sure that being one of the largest libraries in the country, they may have old Cricketer magazine copies. So I walked up to the front desk lady and asked her in an
excited and loud voice: ‘kiya aap ke paas March 1971 ka cricketer magazine hai’ :) :) {(Do you have Cricketer magazine of March 1971?) }

In my excitement I had said it so loud that people who were reading in silence zone looked up at me startled and this front desk lady immediately pointed out to me library’s ‘silence please’ policy by putting fingers on her lips and saying ‘shhhhh’. She also gave me a look as if I was crazy to ask for a 1971 copy of a magazine in the year 1986. Later I asked her by whispering and she also replied in a whisper which I later deciphered as a polite ‘no.’

Anyways, up until 1989 I had kept few pages empty in my register in case I found scorecards of these lost matches from early 1970s.

The advent of internet has taken away all the romance of noting down the statistics and scorecards. What I achieved after the hard work of 10 years can be found by just one click of a mouse now. See below for a complete list of Pakistan’s ODI scorecards.

Men At Their Best

This web site is dedicated to the serving, retired and deceased officers of the 55 PMA Long Course, who joined the PMA on 13 May 1975 and were commissioned into the Pakistan Army on 17 April 1977 (or October 1977 in case of those who passed out with 56 PMA Long Course). The site has been hoisted wef 1 January 2008 - a memorable year for the course as after 17 April 2008, only a handful will remain in uniform.

In all 241 joined for the course, of which only 179 passed out with 55 PMA Long Course, while some were relegated to 56 PMA Long Course and some were withdrawn or sought self relief in the first term. Finally 38 rose to the rank of brigadier, of which 13 have been promoted to the rank of major general. 2008 would witness retiring of some of the brigadiers, while in 2009, only general officers of the course would be left behind on the play ground for finding themselves yet higher glories..... (Thanks to ZK)

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Arts Pakistan - A Place to Visit

Raza Rumi

The art world of Pakistan is not given the attention it deserves. But amends are being made. Arts Pakistan, or Artspak, is a recently developed website, with an exclusive collection of videos, paintings and photographs that depicts the country’s vibrant art scene.

The website has been developed by Khalid Sherdil, a motivated civil servant. The gentleman was inspired by Athar Tahir, a senior civil servant who also happens to be a renowned poet. Artspak is very decided about its aims:

Our objective is to preserve the arts, culture and talent of Pakistan. This site is dedicated to the Artists of Pakistan: Painters, Actors, Dramatists, Musicians, Dancers, Singers, Sculptors, Photographers or Writers. If you are an Artist, you can Host your work Free. Just email us pictures/videos of your work and your biography.

My favourite pick in the website has to be the video-clips from Ajoka, a socially aware theatre group based in Lahore. This is what Artspak says on Ajoka, "Ajoka, which pioneered the theatre movement in Pakistan, was set up in 1983 by a group of young people led by Madeeha Gauhar, a TV actress and theatre director. Ajoka’s first play, Badal Sarkar’s “Jaloos”, was performed in Lahore in 1984, in a house lawn in defiance of the strict censorship laws. Since then Ajoka has been continuously performing socially-meaningful plays within Pakistan and abroad. It has now over two dozen original plays and several adaptations in it’s repertoire."

While Pakistan’s mainstream art scene is dominated by artists from Lahore and Karachi, Artspak has tried to probe further. For instance, it introduced an artist based in Baluchistan. This was indeed a creditable job of highlighting the styles of that remote corner of the country.

Another fascinating bit was the biography of Muhammad Umair Arif, a young male Kathak dancer who has defied social conventions to become a kathak performer.

Under the Mughal rule, Kathak became a highly nuanced chamber art that was patronized by arty rulers for centuries. It has evolved over time as a formidable art form that refuses to fade away despite the pressures of modernity and the need for popular art that is commercially viable. The good thing is that Umair is not the only one. Lahore Chitrkar has emerged another focal point for nurturing and introducing a range of musicians and dancers.

Perhaps all is not lost when it comes to art in the land of the pure.

Artspak is a welcome endeavour. While it does need further consolidation and some re-arrangement, it provides a good introduction to the diversity and colours of Pakistani arts. Our good wishes to the website.

Since the website is in its initial phase, please do send your suggestions to the webmaster for additions, deletions and entries.

Earlier versions were posted on Pakistan Paindabad and Pak Tea House and ATP.

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But first this, making money online phenomena is very addictive and needs persistent hard work. I got my first check in 1997. It is since then that I have been working on this in different ways. Though Light Within basically remains showcase of my published work and a place where I carry out some target practice.

The first paid blogging program I joined was ReviewMe. Two of my blogs, Light Within for $ 60.00 per review and Thatta Kedona at the rate of $ 40.00 per review, were accepted initially. I could also take 40 reviews campaigns from their market place. They accept the blogs on the basis of link popularity, Technorati ranking, Google page rank and Alexa traffic rankings.

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Rishta

Pervaiz Munir Alvi

PurDil Khan had been under a lot of pressure lately. Even before the month of fasting had started his wife was nagging him on a number of issues. She wanted his help to stock essentials like sugar, rice, flour and ghee before the prices would shoot up for the holidays. She also wanted him to send for their elder daughter Gul Jan and her three little children to spend Ramazan and Eid with them. The three grand children must have new clothes and shoes for the Eid and the time was really running short. But PurDil Khan thought there was still enough time for these things and wanted to postpone addressing them for few more days if not for few weeks. More pressing on his mind was what was going on at his workshop and the situation that he might have to face at the mosque. Sitting on his lathe he thought of the days when his worries were much less and simpler to handle.

Six years ago his elder daughter Gul Jan was only sixteen when his brother SherDil Khan surprised him on Eid day by asking for her rishta for his son Afzal Khan.

“But Agha Jan she is only sixteen and has not even learned the ways of household”, PurDil had protested mildly.

“It matters not. She is not going to any stranger’s house. She is my daughter too and my house is her house as well. Plus my wife and our mother will be there to teach her whatever she needs to learn”, the elder brother had argued.

Before she knew it, Gul Jan was married to her cousin Afzal Khan and without a miss came along their three children; two boys and a girl. Since then for the last six years it had been a tradition for Gul Jan and her kids to spend Eid at her father’s house.

“I’ll send for her in two weeks”, PurDil said to himself. “For now I must finish all the orders I have promised to deliver right after Eid. Plus I must find out what my son Akmal Khan is up to”. If it was not for Dr. Abdul Rashid Dundaan Saz across the street from his workshop, PurDil Khan would not have known any thing about what was going on behind his back.

PurDil Khan was an upright and pious religious man who all his adult life had never missed his namaz. Every body at the mosque knew him well and respected him for his honesty and righteousness. Particularly kind to him was the Imam Sahab Qari Amin-ul-Haq. Often after the prayers PurDil Khan would stay behind to have a little chat with the Qari Sahab. But what Dr. Rashid told him today was totally unexpected and it had disturbed him very much.

Actually PurDil Khan was only making a minor complaint in passing when he said to Dr. Rashid that if his son would work a little harder he would not be so much behind in completing his Eid orders. But Dr. Rashid exploded a bomb when he told him that soon after PurDil Khan leaves the shop for prayers his son leaves too; except his son leaves the shop to go to the Qari Sahab’s house. He was having a liaison with Qari Sahab’s daughter when the two men were at the prayers.

The thought of his son having a secret affair with Qari Sahab’s young daughter was very disturbing for PurDil Khan. “What if the people at the mosque found out what was going on? What if Qari Sahab found out what was going on? Maybe I should have a man-to-man talk with my son. Maybe I should go to Qari Sahab and ask his daughter’s rishta for Akmal Khan. Maybe I should wait till after Eid to tackle with this issue”. PurDil Khan was pondering on all these and many more questions in his mind. Finally he decided that he would speak to Akmal Khan after the Eid but for now he must keep a strict watch on the movements of his son.

It was 27th of Ramazan. Gul Jan and her three children had already arrived at the house. PurDil’s younger daughter Noor Jan was particularly happy to have her niece and nephews at the house and was always busy playing with them. She had just turned eighteen and was very happy with her job at this NGO office involved with abused and neglected housewives. PurDil Khan had just returned from his evening prayers and family was getting ready for their supper when some one knocked at the front door.

“I’ll check it”, Akmal Khan said quickly proceeding to the door.

It was Shireen, Imam Sahab’s daughter at the door with a covered plate in her hand.

“My father has asked me to deliver this to your house”, she said quietly.

“She could not be more than sixteen”, PurDil said to himself.

As she was leaving Akmal Khan was ready to close the door behind her.

“May be she could make a good wife for Akmal Khan one day. But kids must come to the parents first instead of getting involved with each other secretly. I’ll discuss this subject with my son after the Eid”, PurDil was reasoning in his mind.

Eid day was very busy at the mosque. A large crowd had turned up for the prayers and Qari Sahab delivered a well thought out Khutba for the occasion. He pointed out that while month long fasting and extended prayers during Ramazan were to please God, Eid day was to be thankful for His blessings and to share the joy with family and friends and to give alms to the poor. After the prayers PurDil exchanged hugs and warm hand shakes with all of his friends and with Qari Sahab.

“Oh PurDil, could you meet me at my hujra before you return home. I want to discuss some thing very important and personal with you”, Qari Sahab said.

“Does he know about the secret meetings between Shireen and Akmal Khan? How much does he know? How I am going to defend myself and my son’s behavior”. All these questions started to run through PurDil’s mind.

“How is the family”, Qari Sahab nervously started the conversation sitting face to face with PurDil Khan.

“Every body is fine, alhamdolillah. My older daughter Gul Jan is home with her kids and my younger daughter Noor Jan got a very good job with this NGO. At least for now”, PurDil was saying with equally nervous discourse.

“Yes I know. I see Noor Jan every afternoon passing my Hujra when I sit here for my daily reading. She is a very fine girl. In fact I wanted to ask you her hand for myself”.

“Qari Amin”. PurDil Khan got up with the agility of a wild cat.

“What are you talking Qari Amin. You are already married. Plus she is hardly any older than your own daughter. Have you gone mad”, PurDil snarled at him with anger.

“But I have not asked you anything outside the Shariat. She is way past sixteen and it is good for girls to be married once they come of age”. Qari Amin was saying.

“You must forget it. Shariat or no Shariat, this rishta is not acceptable. Not to me. Not to my daughter. We must never speak on this subject again. Never”. PurDil quickly left Qari Amin’s Hujra without further exchanging any words with him.

The moment PurDil returned home his three grand kids wrapped themselves around his legs. “Eid Mubarak Baba Jan”.

“Khair Mubarak”, PurDil Khan tried to return the greetings with a smile while still seething about his earlier encounter.

Noor Jan offered a small chair to PurDil to sit down while his wife came over with a hot bowl of sheermall. Akmal Khan too came in from outside and sat down next to his father. “Where were you this morning? I did not see you at the Eid prayers.” PurDil inquired his son. “Oh Baba Jan I was with my friends getting ready for the Eid”. Akmal Khan tried to explain.

The two men sat quietly for some time, each thinking about what to say next. Finally Akmal Khan broke the silence. “Baba Jan I wanted to talk to you about Qari Sahab’s daughter Shireen. I was wondering if you would ask Qari Sahab about her rishta for me”.

“Enough Akmal Khan. Enough”, PurDil said with a slight of his hand. “This rishta is not good for us and don’t ask me why. Now go get your sisters Gul Jan and Noor Jan. I need to give every body their Eidi”.

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22 Killed in Pakistan Suicide Blast


A suicide bomber blew himself up among police officers outside a court in Lahore, killing at least 22 people and wounding dozens.


Who is killing whom? Why?

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Coconut Seller

Pervaiz Munir Alvi


Traveling on the GT road some where near Hassan Abdal we pulled into this filling station. The tank was almost empty and had to be refilled. A moment later this child appeared at the car window. A beautiful child who could not be more than twelve years old. His face was devoid of any sign of cheerfulness that is generally associated with children of his age. While the car was being filled I decided to have a short conversation with this child. I asked him why he was not in school. His answer was simple. He does not go to school. “Why’ I asked again. “He does not” he repeated his answer and walked away from the car window and stood against the hedge looking the other way. That is when I took this snapping.

This child is no way unique. There are millions of small children in Pakistan like him that do not go to school and spend their day working at tea stalls, bicycle repair shops, as petty hawkers, cleaning boys and the job list goes on. I am posting this picture here on ATP to shake our collective conscience with the same question: Why this child does not go to school?

Is it that his parents do not want him to be educated? Is it that they can not afford for his education? Is it that there is no school near where he lives? What are the reasons that this child does not go to school? Almost all of my Pakistani well-off friends and relatives are forever ready to tell me how wonderfully their children are doing in school. I hear this endless talk about O level and A level. But how many of us, including myself are concerned about these children of lesser god. We could blame the government, system, politicians, mullahs, feudal lords and so forth and so on till we are blue in the face. But my question is that what we have done lately for these unfortunate children except exploiting their poverty and the system by employing them as domestic servants. I am not trying to single them out but from his book ‘Indus Journey’ I got tired of reading how Imran Khan went to Atchison College and Oxford to play cricket. How ‘Daughter of the East’ Benazir Bhutto went to Harvard and Oxford. When are we going to send this twelve years old coconut seller to school?

of Mad Dogs and Yamaha 50

Owais Mughal

I had a Yamaha 50 before I owned a Yamaha 100. My Yamaha 50 was red in color. Many a times the person riding on it also got shades of red. The red shades came sometimes as anger and sometimes as blushes. This motorcycle made sure that its rider always remained humble.

During my high school years, poetry of Iqbal became part of our compulsory Urdu course. Almost in every Urdu class our teacher used to make us think about Iqbal’s philosophy of ‘khudi’ (ego). I tried my level best to understand it but whenever I sat on my Yamaha 50, my belief in ‘khudi’ always went lower than before. If Iqbal had lived to see my Yamaha 50, his philosophy of ‘khudi’ might have changed to that of ‘bay-khudi’ (no self control).

Maximum rated speed of this motorcycle was 60 kmph. This must have been the theoretical limit set by its Japanese creators, because on the road it never went above 15 kmph. Once I was riding it on a narrow street. To give room to an oncoming vehicle I swerved to the side and went pass closely to some wild bushes. Those wild bushes were home to a mad dog which was not very fond of visitors, especially those who came on motorcycles. This mad dog suddenly came out of the bushes, showed me all his canines and then made bubbles out of his saliva. I on the other hand felt my life getting extracted out of me. I turned the accelerator to the full while not taking my eyes off the dog. The dog also started stamping his back feet on the ground as if getting ready to take off. My motorcycle gained full speed which to my horror came out to be exactly 15 kmph. For a second, it seemed to me that the dog smiled at me and then I remember vividly that he ran after me.

I’ve heard that mad dogs go for the human legs first therefore I immediately lifted my legs. I made them horizontal in the air, so they were at the same height as my motorcycle’s fuel tank.

On the other hand the dog gained speed and reached up to just 3 feet behind my motorcycle. Since I don't have photos from this incident, I tried to sketch it out for you. Now I have no talents in drawing but I hoe my sketches convey the situation well.


The mad dog came witihn 3 feet of my legs

He must’ve been an old dog because somehow his maximum speed also came out to be 15 kmph. My motorcycle and this dog were now in a state of dynamic equilibrium with the distance between us remaining constant. The traffic on both sides of the street screeched to a halt as everyone started watching this interesting tussle between dog and machine. The human (i.e. me) was out of this equation as my fate was conjoined to that of the machine. After chasing me for 15 or 20 feet, the dog finally gave up and I was finally able to breath. The traffic that had halted to see this interesting duel also started to move again. All of this happened in just few seconds but for the life of me I cannot forget the details up to milliseconds level and hence I am able to stretch those few seconds to so many lines of text here.

I was a teenager when I started riding this motorcycle. I was full of energy, dreams and ready to take on the whole world. You cannot imagine how handicapped I used to feel while riding this bike. There was no mode of conveyance available to mankind, to which I didn’t lose in speed. For example, sometimes I would decide to overtake a passenger bus. I would increase the accelerator and in 30 seconds or so I would emerge from the back and come to the side of the bus. At this stage my motorcycle would reach its maximum speed. Both bus and I would be running in parallel now. Some passengers, who would be looking at me with interest, would openly start smiling by now. This would further deplete my trust in Iqbal’s philosophy of ‘khudi’ and increase in that of ‘supurdagi’ (submission).

Trying to overtake a bus was always a humbling experience.

This motorcycle remained in my custody until 1990 when I bought a Yamaha 100 and was able to conquer the whole world with it. Yamaha 50 was sold for just under a thousand rupees. If it is still alive and running then by now it must’ve grown old to Yamaha 20 or Yamaha 10. I wish all the best to its current owner, whoever he might be.

Tags: Memories, Society

Girls! Guess?

What may be on laptop screen that makes her so happy? Make a guess girls!

Take Care

Caring for the elder people is a sociatal concern. A person who has lived active life, raised a family and now he or she is left alone because everyone is busy with own lifves. Or a person who doesn’t have anyone to take care in senior years?

This dilemma has given birth to many services. One of them is caring homes where old people can live when they need to. One of the services that provides answers to crucial questions about care in senior years is Bettercaring. The service offer help to search for the right type of care homes and also to find the funds to pay for it. Those who need long-term care can choose care at home or residential care. They even provide financial fact sheets and links to agencies that can offer financial help.

Bettercaring news and views section keeps users informed and up to date with the latest topics relevant to their users. In their healthy living section, they give healthy food options to try.

Those who need to talk to others about care issues can join bettercaring community forum and discuss the things of mutual interests. Another great feature is memory lane where one can share memories with other readers – a great way pass on your experiences and wisdom.

One wishes to have own people to take care in the last stages of life. In case that is not possible, battercaring might be the best choice to take care when needed.

Hate Is {Love}

Do you believe this axiom?

Gaping Void via Sai Chrionical

Muharram

Muharram (Arabic: محرم ) is the first month of the Islamic calendar. It is one of the four sanctified months of the year. Fighting in this month is looked down upon and is often put to the side in respect for Islam. Since the Islamic calendar is lunar, Muharram moves from year to year when compared to the Gregorian calendar.

The first day of Muharram is the start of the Islamic New Year. The Festival of Muharram takes place during this month in which Shia Muslims especially commemorate the Battle of Karbala. The commemoration reaches its climax on the tenth day of Muharram, known as Ashurah.

Driving Secrets

Anyone can learn driving from driving but there are two more things required before driving on the UK road and are not taught in driving schools; courtesies and little know secrets to use and how to use them to your advantages.

Those loopholes are better explained in UK Driving Secrets – a must for every one who wants to drive in UK. The guide not only teaches you how to avoid speeding ticket and survive on the roads but also makes you wiser on legal aspects, laws and other important things which you might not have heard about.

Visit the site and learn what the guide covers, better still buy. It is not a bad deal at all.

Real Life

Cribbing is a common past time but situation in Pakistan these days is real tough. Life for common people is even tougher; getting worst every day.

A common housewife I happened to talk says it all, “political assassination of Benazir Bhutto was bad. But the following turmoil is the worst, shortage of commodities (Flore being sold 100 time costly), shortage of Gas and Electricity (candle of rupees 3/- being sold in rupees 15/- and domestic electric generators are being sold on double the price) is breaking the neck of middle and working classes. Women could not move freely after last light even earlier but imagine some woman walking in Bazaar searching for shoe laces for her school going child and light goes off. How can children study for coming exams without light or enough heating arrangements? They are poised to lose another academic year. No?

Responsible agencies, instead of doing armaments to meet the shortage, announce that people should adopt this new lifestyle.

Now Muharram (traditionally tense season in Pakistan) is coming! What will happen then? And then election in this highly charged atmosphere.”

She is no political analyst but she does summaries the situation that may not be known to people in the helms of affairs.

US Elections - 2008

US elections heating up, I asked my friend Deb Sistrunk about her views on on Barack Obama’s chances to win. This is what she emailed, “Barack Obama's win in Iowa was impressive. Even so, a lot can happen between now and the November elections. Still, I think Obama is one of the most impressive candidates I've seen in several years. His wide base of supporters has provided his campaign with a huge war chest. Oprah Winfrey’s backing of Obama is also “huge.” When Oprah campaigned in Iowa, my first thought was this: “It’s ON now!”

There is a lot of talk about Obama being on his way to being the first black president. Since I am black, I have been asked my thoughts on this. Quite frankly, I don't think of Obama as being a prospective "first black president," although, of course, he would be. Yes, he is black, and I admire the grassroots work that he did in Chicago prior to entering the political arena. African-American voters are watching Obama closely, whether they plan to vote for him or not.

I think Obama has made it as far as he has on his own merits and savvy, and not for his race. As I see it, the U.S. needs to "get over" its biases against people of color and women. It’s time that we stop being preoccupied with race and gender. This is 2008, for goodness sake. Because Obama was brought up in a multicultural family, he has a more global view of the world than many. I think knowledge and respect for other cultures is extremely important and a valuable asset. As you probably know, Obama's mother was a white woman from Kansas, his father was Kenyan, and his stepfather was Indonesian. Obama was born in Hawaii, the USA's 50th state - a tropical island. He spent part of his childhood in Indonesia. He also spent time with his father herding goats in Kenya.

He’s worked in grassroots efforts in a large urban area, advocating for - and giving a voice to - populations who historically have had no voice. What we have in Obama is a very educated man who can identify with common folks AND chat it up with Fortune 500 types.

His platform is quite sound, I think. He is very bright and a quick learner. If Obama wins the Democratic nomination for President, I would have no reservations about voting for him.

Bloggers Are Better Human!

Bloggers are better human. I found this when I met Raza Rumi (Jehane Rumi and Pak Tea House fame) earlier today. We talked blogging and much beyond that. Anyone can see that he is influential blogger. I can see hear his voice in this din called blogsphere.

Madame Bovary

In 1866, Gustave Flaubert - famous French Writer of his time -- wrote Madame Bovary and called it one of his best writings. There was a definite perception about freedom of expression and about what is obscene and what is not. It was due to that societal sensitivity that novel Madame Bovary was declared immoral and Flaubert charged.

The prosecution attorney logically presented his case and told the court that Flaubert has violated the French literary traditions (What was novel writing before Flaubert? Actually, it was very much like the flowery novels that Emma Bovary (the heroin) feeds on -- Victorian in the high-flown ideals of romantic love and perhaps not too far off from the Harlequin Romances of today's marketplace, but without the sexual innuendo). Madam Bovary does not represent women; her disenchantments are appalling. Flaubert has let a wolf lose in our society that is seen dissecting its fibbers. The Judge and other audiences in the court, who had all read the novel, were mesmerized by noble arguments attorney had offered with deep concern.

Later, Flaubert was asked to present his defence. Flaubert said, “My Lord, Madame Bovary indeed is a wolf as rightly pointed out by the leaned council. But I have not unleashed this wolf. This is done by the French society. I have only pointed it out.”

Now look at the wolf let lose in another form; advertising, advertising in any form, on the web or at billboards in streets. Consumers every where stumble upon sexually laced advertising - odd juxtaposition of the two figures warning something briefer than a lot of panty styles, ‘her’ eyes riveted on a ‘guy’ next to her. These ads looking like simulated sex. It might take ages of ads to convince targeted audiences that the main goal in life is to look sexy, but sure such campaigns are sexualizing society fast and teaching that love equals lust, and lust with anyone is OK.

Is this what "freedom of expression" really mean? Or is this marketing?

Since 1974

You don’t have to be an American to enjoy this video titled OBAMA REVEALED PRESIDENTIAL INTENTIONS IN ’74 that shows US presidential candidate Barack Obama as mushroom-induced college student in 1974 announcing his intentions to be a president one day. This seems to be coming true, veracity of the video notwithstanding. Personally, I think he has American’s best interests at heart. Comedian Freddy Lockhart tricks YouTube viewers with his work of art. Now you watch this!.



Viewers of video must be 18+ of age.

Technology: Where Does it Go From Here?

{In Dawn, Jan 5, 2008} Every analyst and trend watcher seems to be predicting the future of information technology (IT) these days. Given the exponential rate of developments in all the fields of IT activities, it is so safe to predict that the future of IT is bright. But many in their forecasts are over exaggerating the effects? Some are doing it to promote certain trends or products and services, some others to prove the industry leadership.

This is not yet another crystal ball gaze but is a simple extension of empirical observations of our own environment into the future, assuming that the present milieu surrounding meaningful employment of IT everywhere continues, good chances are that it will continue to improve here too though at a much slower speed that what one would like to see. But this is not from the point of developers but views here are of those who are at the other end of the equation – the users.


Users’ perceptions are already changing noticeably. Most of the analysts, trend watcher and users I talked to expressed hopes of positive changes IT is poised to bring about. Developments in IT has resulted in expanded access and pervasiveness of computers. Some of the software houses are doing contractual IT work for western developers in their individual capacity. Businesses which are online cross political and corporate boundaries in seconds, forming new alliances that were unknown to traditional structures and channels. Public and private sectors IT institutions are preparing large number of employable IT graduates every year. Political image notwithstanding, industry giants are showing interest to invest in Pakistan to take advantage of IT professional’s base here that is familiar with international business language (English) and available at comparative rates.

Similarly, computers and the Internet have penetrating in households more and more. Fairly large number can afford and obtain computers and the Internet connections. Rich and poor have nearly equal access to cyberspace almost anywhere and anytime. Online activities of home users are maturing beyond casual communication and fun surfing.

It is in this situation that those who have employed IT in corporate sector say that business practices as well as consumers’ behaviours are changing positively: Businesses have gone increasingly international in scope. Markets have expanded and monopolies are changing into oligopolies if (yet) not pure competition. Anyone who can bring a first class product and harness technology successfully is bound to prosper in world market. “World in which we do business today differs profoundly from that of ten years ago, and this difference is mainly attributable to IT solutions. Why else sky suits made in Karachi and sports goods made in Bheikho (near Sialkot) are seen prominently in international championships,” says an International Marketing expert Punjab University Professor Ehsan Malik. Sure we are not making most of existing IT infrastructure. “What I can say with certainty about the future is this: Large number of business concerns, large and small, is poised to making optimum use of IT and benefit. The realization is already upon us that IT (coupled with standard business practices) is the only way ahead,” adds Professor Ehsan Malik.

Call centre technology developer Anwar Sheikh thinks, “IT is not just a set of programs, instruments or utilities processing information. IT is a mixture of all these essentials to meet to achieve business goals and should be able to meet the needs of any business outfit. It is the output from all the applications and experience to produce something useful; a product, a process, a system, a methodology. It is a result that matter ultimately because that is what businesses want. Every futuristic concern now believes that employment of IT results in better efficiency, lower cost, more production flexibility, and product quality and consistency. I see more business adopting call centres and deploying other IT solutions in future.”

The power of computers is increasing by every day. They are getting affordable to have, simpler to learn and massively customisable for different set of wants making them vital part of all contemporary life activities. It is now imaginable to consider an era where hotel, airline, rail and other reservations, stock exchange trade, banking, shopping, payroll accounting and many other functions, which have already become part of life in the developed world, becoming routine here too. “It is no prophecy because these systems are already successfully working in the west. What I see is the local users developing trust in gizmos and networks to transfer information as well as money economically and speedily,” says Mahmood Ahmad, graduate from reputed local IT institute now studying abroad.

IT is not autonomous. It is part of social and cultural phenomena. Information is a universal engine of social change. “Information found online in its various forms -- “voice conversations, still images, motion pictures, multimedia presentations, and online, including those not yet conceived” -- is bringing about social changes; some are already visible. Users are demanding quality information that they can turn into common knowledge and apply to real life problems on ground. Sociologist Dr. Muhamad Anwaar predicts, “What we find on the Internet is to become part of wisdom ultimately. Or it will be rejected right away.”

Past events and measure taken are suggesting safer surfing in future. Users have been complaining of information deficiency syndrome (and information overload), spam, security concerns, identity theft, cyber crimes, copyright violations, and unsavory material that mar the internet experience. Only spasm has coasted millions to businesses besides irritating individual users by filling in their inboxes with mails sometime carrying viruses, Trojan horses, ads for herbal medicines or links to explicit imagery. But a lot is being done to clean the cyberspace and make it more liveable. Majority of local users believe that email, instant messaging, searching, surfing and blogging will mature and improve in quality in future. A hardcore techie Khalid Shahzad says, “In future, commute on the Information Highway will be much safer. Ethics will get better. On the downside, I see paid contents on the Internet increasing. More information will go behind subscriptions and or security firewalls.”

Future seems heavily IT dependent. IT plays central role in business word and lives of individual users, whatever they happen to be doing in life or career. Academicians, media and IT professionals themselves are best placed than any other category, to span the gaps between real world and IT and the gap between IT and perceptions.

New generation will be more digital than the present one.

Top Ten Pakistan Blogs

Here are Light Within Top Ten Pakistan blogs of 2007:

Site Name/Bloglines/Alexa/Technorati/Links

1. pakistaniat.com/ 85/119,281/ 12,250/ 793

2. eteraz.wordpress.com/ 67/ 584,331/ 14,552/ 616

3. teeth.com.pk/ 23 202,579/ 22,063/ 998

4. islamabad.metblogs.com/ 42 26,767/ 32,707/ 373

5. karachi.metblogs.com/ 77 26,767/ 29,685/ 0

6. lahore.metblogs.com/ 48/ 26,767/ 38,213/ 350

7. sajshirazi.blogspot.com/ 30/ 139,569/ 60,261/ 434

8. razarumi.com/ 18/ 4,087,235/ 96,541/ 303

9. pakspectator.blogspot.com/ 11/ 924,904/ 42,744/ 699 (now here)

10. chowrangi.com/ 7/ 529,893/ 112,625/ 1,875